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Purpose of Life’s Purpose

Start by undoing the underlying assumptions typically inherent in that question. Usually the assumption is that there is One "Life's Purpose." In addition, it is assumed that one's Life Purpose is "out there somewhere." Something predetermined.

The Tools of Change Chapter 3.3

Continued from The Tools of Change Chapter 3.2   V: – I think people can find Unrelenting Positivity irritating. Syl: – No, they find false cheerfulness irritating. The two are not associated. Or any falseness. V: – My friend, Z,…

The Tools of Change Chapter 3.2

Continued from Ch 3.1: The Tools of Change Chapter 3.1 V: – Things better with W. Stopped bickering. But I’m aware of how difficult it is to be grateful or positive around him. When he complains so much. Syl: –…

The Tools of Change – Ch 3.1

The Tools of Change  Chapter 3.1. Not being Affected by the Emotions of Others  I make a deliberate effort in conversations such as these to avoid Traditional Psychology. Even casual usage of the terms involved wherever possible. It is to avoid…