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Beneficial Unrealism

To Master Expectations, we do need to develop the ability to be able to absolutely, with complete 100% conviction, Expect the improbable and unlikely. Perhaps we know from experience when by chance, we had such Expectations, and they were met, it is something that *Can* happen.
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Purpose of Life’s Purpose

Start by undoing the underlying assumptions typically inherent in that question. Usually the assumption is that there is One "Life's Purpose." In addition, it is assumed that one's Life Purpose is "out there somewhere." Something predetermined.

The Choices of Ignorance Part 2 of 2

When we do that, then we start Looking for alternatives and create them ourselves if need be. So there is always a choice. Just not choices we remember. Of course, in most cases, choosing that which we don't know, is a choice we don't want to make. It is typically an unpleasant choice. But it is a choice nonetheless.

The Choices of Ignorance Part 1 of 2

She set about being loved by important people, even by a president. But still, she was not happy. And when she realized that she had fulfilled all her ambitions, that she was loved by everyone, was loved by important people and she still was not happy, she realized...

Belief Not Required

This is the Power of Attunement and Alignment. It is becoming One with the Way of the World. What that means in real every day terms, is we use our Energy more Appropriately, and thus more efficiently and effectively, and thus we have more to spare. More energy, always means more happiness, and if we free up enough Energy, we get to Joy.

The Tools of Change Chapter 3.3

Continued from The Tools of Change Chapter 3.2   V: – I think people can find Unrelenting Positivity irritating. Syl: – No, they find false cheerfulness irritating. The two are not associated. Or any falseness. V: – My friend, Z,…

The Foundation of Integrity

“When it comes to trust and mistrust – it is most useful to be able to apply both at the same time…and neither. Then it is we start to develop Discernment.” – From: Perspectives by The New Nobility Syl: –…