Developing the ability to be able to stand up and express a Perspective that is contrary to the prevailing “Supposed to be;” is one of the major values in all of this.
To Master Expectations, we do need to develop the ability to be able to absolutely, with complete 100% conviction, Expect the improbable and unlikely. Perhaps we know from experience when by chance, we had such Expectations, and they were met, it is something that *Can* happen.
Start by undoing the underlying assumptions typically inherent in that question. Usually the assumption is that there is One “Life’s Purpose.” In addition, it is assumed that one’s Life Purpose is “out there somewhere.” Something predetermined.
Mas pipiliin ng kanyang laman at kalamnan na tikman ang panandaliang pighati subalit mas makapagpapalaya sa sakit na kanyang nararamdaman. Mas nanaisin niyang wakasan ang bawat mapapait na alaala kaysa harapin ang mga susunod na ihahain sa kanya ng mundo.
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When we do that, then we start Looking for alternatives and create them ourselves if need be. So there is always a choice. Just not choices we remember.
Of course, in most cases, choosing that which we don’t know, is a choice we don’t want to make. It is typically an unpleasant choice. But it is a choice nonetheless.
She set about being loved by important people, even by a president. But still, she was not happy. And when she realized that she had fulfilled all her ambitions, that she was loved by everyone, was loved by important people and she still was not happy, she realized…
In this understanding of the necessity of how things are, there is also the full understanding of how the unpleasant, of how negative consequence and such, are also a part of the system.
This is the Power of Attunement and Alignment. It is becoming One with the Way of the World. What that means in real every day terms, is we use our Energy more Appropriately, and thus more efficiently and effectively, and thus we have more to spare. More energy, always means more happiness, and if we free up enough Energy, we get to Joy.
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