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A Deluge of Comfort

Drought always ends in rain. Sometimes, the profoundly obvious, is also profoundly impactful. We received rain last night, after half a year of no-rain. I love the rain. Rain brings me joy, comfort, peace and a profound happiness. It’s as…

The Tools of Change Chapter 3.4

Continued from The Tools of Change Chapter 3.3   Syl: – I will start with personal relationships, as that is simpler. V: – But I’ll find my own reasons for Unrelenting Positivity. As you know, I disagree that it’s all…

The Tools of Change Chapter 3.3

Continued from The Tools of Change Chapter 3.2   V: – I think people can find Unrelenting Positivity irritating. Syl: – No, they find false cheerfulness irritating. The two are not associated. Or any falseness. V: – My friend, Z,…

The Tools of Change Chapter 3.2

Continued from Ch 3.1: The Tools of Change Chapter 3.1 V: – Things better with W. Stopped bickering. But I’m aware of how difficult it is to be grateful or positive around him. When he complains so much. Syl: –…

The Tools of Change – Ch 3.1

The Tools of Change  Chapter 3.1. Not being Affected by the Emotions of Others  I make a deliberate effort in conversations such as these to avoid Traditional Psychology. Even casual usage of the terms involved wherever possible. It is to avoid…