It is not always about the physical aspect, beauty of the outside will fade but the beauty of the heart will always remain. You don't need to pass the standards of this judgmental society nor to be like them. You don't need to change who you are to fit in this world.
Everything is worth-risking and worth fighting for, right? Even things don't turn out the way we want it to be in the end. It is the process, it is how we go through the things. It is the memories of the journey that makes it worthy.