Benefits of self-confidence

Self-Confidence By Lawson Elijah

Essential Things You Need To Know:

Self confidence plays a crucial role in building your self esteem.
Self confidence is pretty explanatory, it can be referred to as a sub conscious/ conscious way of believing in yourself in any situation, irrespective of what others say. Achieving self-confidence is a major factor to get rid of conversation failure.

Self-confidence is an important requirement for our daily activities.
Ben Carson, while operating on the Siamese twin, encountered a difficulty and according to the book ‘’Gifted Hands’’, He remembered his mother’s word saying; ‘’Ben, you can do anything,when you put your mind to it’’. When he remembered that, he believed it and he successful performed the surgery.

Self-confidence is a feeling of self assurance, arising from the acknowledgment of one’s abilities (more than one).

Why use his story? He serves as an inspiration to this generation and beyond. There is power when you believe you can do it. Never let anything way you down.

Here are ways to help build your self confidence:

1. Have a balanced life:
You need to balance your school work, job, chores etc. Read on Time management to know how to balance these.

2. Intellectually:
You can’t be confident in your self and yet dumb. You should know a little of everything. Read far and wide, even beyond your area of expertise for you don’t know when they’ll come in handy.

3. Appealing appearance:
Have a nice looking appearance. Look smart and neat always. Dress well either in public on in your comfort zone. Good dressing boosts your confidence.

4. Communicate with positive people:
Move with quality people that’ll help build your confidence. The kind of people who wouldn’t laugh at your weaknesses but help correct them.

5. Quality Environment:
Make absolute sure that the environment you live in is positive, healthy and pleasing to you.

6. Spirituality:
Pray to your God/Allah to help you build self confidence. (As Christians,have the mindset that Jesus wasn’t an introvert, He had confidence in his father (God). Cultivate the same habit).

Leaders Need to be self aware and self confident as this allows them to lead effectively, take risks, make decision beyond expectations.
‘’Believe in yourself and you abilities as a skill, and it can be learnt ’’ LEAP Africa.

Other factors to consider are;

  • Accept and Love your self.
  • Learn to say ‘’thank you’’ to people who commend your skills.
  • Set Goals (Long term and short term)
  • Share your thoughts, and opinions with others(But be careful lest they betray you).
  • Believe in your self! Have an ‘’I can do it’’ type of spirit.
  • Visualize your goal (See it happening already).
  • Accept failure if you fail, and take it as a learning experiance.
  • Be an expert in a field of study, and share that knowledge with others.
  • And finally, reward your self when you succeed. 

#Selfconfidence #Thanks

Benefits of Self-confidence

By Lawson Elijah

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What a great post. Self confidence is very important. I wish that i could have these attributes. I am working on it. Thank you for sharing. 🙂

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Thanks for reading

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Bea Antipolo | non materialistic

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1.Implicit/Non-material
2.Knowledge
3.Be confident to wear your own Clothes

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Casupanan, Rhelee Mae (MAR142)
1.) Implicit/ Non material
2.) Knowledge
3.) “Wear who you are” – This title would transform the current title to an explicit one. This means that being able to love and embrace yourself is like wearing your own personality. Having enough self confidence would greatly benefit each one of us. Also with the association of the clothing or the way we present ourselves makes up an initial impression of the people which is present every time we interact with others.

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Non-Material JIMENEZ, Mar Mike (ARC 133)

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Balisi, Marynel C. (Mar142)
-Implicit
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-“The practice of wearing a crown”
You get the crown because of what you earned from experience and that thing would become your trophy that makes you more confident in doing things.

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3.Different Title: “Holding a Microphone”

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1. Implicit is the culture shown.
2. Traits and knowledge.
3. Medal and certificate would be the title. It symbolizes achievements in life whether it’s academically or something you are good on, because as a student having these kind of awards it surely boosts my self-confidence in a way that there is something that I can be proud of like sense of fulfillment for myself.
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1. Implicit/Non-Material
2. Culture: Trait
3. Explicit/Material Title: Wearing your outfit of the day (OOTD) or a costume. that somehow shows your strength and capabilities because for me, being confident is being a superhero as well.

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1.Implicit
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1. Implicit
2. Knowledge and Norms. Wherein the Author try to share and educate others about her opinion regarding the essential things that the reader must know in terms of Self Confidence; It
also shows how normal and important is Self Confidence in our daily Lives.
3. “Always wear Confidence”, forget shyness and be proud of who you are.

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1. Implicit
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3. “Own your Crown”

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A Bucket of Confidence

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Communicate with positive people

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Be confident

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1. Implicit
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3. Claim your spot and own the limelight

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Kenneth Willie M. Layona
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Because, if you’re confident, you can do a lot of things, like helping and guiding other people and continuous doing what to want as an individual.

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This article falls under the theory of individualism. Primarily the note is all about educating its readers regarding self confidence and what can we gain from it. All of us has different ways of dealing with our self esteem and the author stated his or her suggestions.

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The articles shows individualism by discussing about trusting in our self and to boost our self condifence

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Fortis, Emmanuel Daniel B. / MAR141 / Sociology MQ2 / i think this fall under individualism because it tells about on how to build your own self confidence and how it can help in your life.

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individualism because the article depicts how to be confident, to trust yourself and be proud of your flaws.

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Escanilla, joshua R. /MAR141/Sociology MQ2/ Individualism because its about on how to build your own self confidence so it refers to the individual life

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This article falls under individualism because it tells about the importance of having self-confidence as a person. In addition to that, you have to trust yourself because you’re especial in your own way.

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This article falls under individualism because it talks about the significance of possessing self-confidence as a person.

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Individualism – Its because it gives certain gives tips on building your own self-confidence.

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The article above is an example of individualism. The author suggests some ways on how an individual can build his self-confidence.

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Individualism. For the article speaks about one’s self confidence.

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Individualism because the author discussed on how can a person build his own self-confidence.

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