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WE ARE ALL WORTH IT

Everything is worth-risking and worth fighting for, right? Even things don't turn out the way we want it to be in the end. It is the process, it is how we go through the things. It is the memories of the journey that makes it worthy.

Everything is worth-risking and worth fighting for, right? Even things don’t turn out the way we want it to be in the end. It is the process, it is how we go through the things. It is the memories of the journey that makes it worthy. But what if that person you risked and fought for regret everything that happened between you two? Do you still think it was worth it? Or do you want to start regretting it too?

It hurts, doesn’t it? The memories that you treasure, remember and play again and again in your head are the memories he wants to forget. All the marshmallow-cupcake-sweet-to-the-max words that he said are the words he’s using now to stab you on the back. All the heartbeats and roller coasters you shared are the experiences he doesn’t want to repeat again. So, do you still think it was worth it? Or do you want to start regretting all of it too?

If we can just unplug the circuits to reset if we can just change the memory chips for new ones and forget what happened just like what he wants. But we can’t, we just have to accept it, that things will never go the way it used to be.

We will just let him,

but it was still all worth-risking and worth fighting for.

worth-it

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  1. Well to start it, the author of this article used an Effort and Result Analogy
    which is a type of “cause and effect” type. She depict her ownself a person who risked everthing
    and fought for someone even though the result of it didn’t turned out the way she wanted it to. Also, she mentioned it
    as “a process” of how going through specific things in life. Through this process she called, memories only is what matters.
    After this processes, or what I called it experiences in her life, she still considered all this struggles to be worth it.

    The article depicts the Real Self because she mentioned a lot of life experiences she faced.
    Also, to support my answer, she narrated obvious instances in her life that she experienced. She narrated
    for what I believed is her life with a particular person that she grew attached to. I assumed that it was her companion in life (boyfriend)
    that did not turned out well for her. Even though she mentioned some instances “he wants to forget”, “he doesn’t want to repeat again”,
    “change the memory chips for new ones and forget what happened just like what he wants”, those she mentioned are the Ideal Self that they wanted to happen.
    But stiil, through the entirety of her artcile it still depicts the Real Self. Because Real Self is who you actually are through experiences, while
    your Ideal Self is the person you want to be.

  2. Base on my understanding the author wants to tell us that even though all this best things happens to us that lead to a thing that is to be regretful are still a worth one, I agree to this even this best things change and it will became a regretful one don’t forget that we still have a good memories to it so why we need to regret the best things that change if the good memories is i still there? so for me its also still a worth one because we are all worth it.

  3. The analogy that is used to present the concept of the article is Cause and Effect Analogy. The Cause is stated as a person who risked and fought for everything for his lover and the Effect is stated as the other lover regretting everything they’ve had. Because loving always comes in pair with getting hurt.

    Based on my own thoughts, the article depicts Real Self. The author described an imminent thing that could happen about someone she really love. She described the instances of what she would feel when someone she fought for somehow regretted what happened between them and what they’ve had.

  4. In every relationship, the basic foundation of everything starts with trust. To be with someone you really want is a gamble that you always bet, even your last piece of penny. In short it is always worth it, no matter the chances that you will lose or you will fail- you will always take the leap of faith. The thing is, the outcome isn’t really what matters, it is the moments that really matter. And that is what makes everything worthy.

    As a matter of fact, the author narrates her experiences with his ex-boyfriend that she couldn’t forget. Even though she isn’t on a good term with his boyfriend due to lack of a proper closure, it is the good memories that she is always seeking. She didn’t emphasize how douchebag his boyfriend is, or the reason behind that particular broke-up, but the things that is to be considered as the highlight of their relationship- which is the good memories. That shows her optimism, and implies a sense of maturity. We must keep in mind that every failed relationships teach us lessons that we couldn’t acquire if it is just a walk in the park. Struggles in every relationship is normal as it makes the relationship stronger. People come and go and acceptance is the key to let go of the bad things and start embracing the better things in life.

    In my own perspective, the blog implies a Real Self, because it is very natural and personal if you observe the context. In addition, the author shows her vulnerable-side and that what makes it real. She told her experiences on both point of views (good or bad) that really says a lot about her true personality. If you will notice, the tone of the author is very casual and she uses words that actually tells her story and not the story she wishes to have. Even though she uses statements that suggests compromise of things, it doesn’t mean that she regret it. And that goes to say that it actually implies the idea of Real Self .

  5. Basically, the author pertains about a relationship ended. Based from the article, it is about the feeling of a break up. Everything in our life is worth it. Yourself, your ex, your family or the people around you are worth it and worth fighthing for. As it is about the feeling after a heart break, it reflected the worth of the risk in taking relationships. The worth is always not about what you have won sometimes it is more in what you have learned. If you fail the thing that you kept fithing or risking, it is more worth it because you learned and it can help you grow and imprive yourself. If you succeed, it is also worth because all the risk or hard work paid off. The author accepts that the relationship that she had is worth it. There for the analogy implies the real self in a way that she was able to tell the things what she really feels. She was able to tell all of it in a natural way that her heart wants. I have able to tell that it is natural because I have said the same thing about the feelings, experiences or opinions in a break up.

  6. The type analogy used in the article by the author is cause and effect. Though the woman gave everything to this man, she took the risks, sacrificed time and efforts, even her own soul, still the effect is that it didn’t turned out the way she expected. The man still leave her. In life, sometimes, even though we gave the best as we can, still it isn’t enough. Life is really ironic. People are also ironic too. I think the woman in the article as I believe is a fighter somehow, that she have got all the strength she need to get through life, that she is bold, fearless, brave and strong enough to accept that her best isn’t enough. But I also do believe that the man is not worth risking for. He’s too fool to let go of the star that will shine his life. Maybe some things will just remain as memories. Maybe the talks, laughs and happy moments will remain as memories as to go through the process.

    The article depicts the real self because it is based on the authentic experiences and it is a reaction of her own feelings and expressions. As to defends my answer, the character highlights her true to life instances, not a developed feelings or what. In fact, she also narrated those things that happened between his ex-man. So for me, the article depicts the real self.

  7. Having relationship with someone is already a risk. Choosing to be with someone you love make you think that everything is worth fighting for. You don’t care how many sacrifices you did for that kind of relationship, for you every moment with that special person matters.

    The author narrates here what she experiences in her past relationship. She created decision that she thinks that she will never regret. Memories that she always remembers no matter what. Even it hurts she thinks that all she did was worth it even thou she lost her lover. She is accepting the fact that nothing really lasts long how much efforts you show, and risk everything. But creating it as a memory and lesson she never regrets what happen in the past at least she learns from it.

    This blog implies a Real Self, because she shows what kind of person she is even thou things didn’t happen well. She became true to herself accepting that things will never be the same as what we wanted to be.

  8. Life doesn’t always go according to plan. We aren’t the one who can dictate what will happen on our life. Just like in this article, the beginning is good but they don’t end up with each other. This article is a short but it leaves us thoughts the we can’t forget. The answers we seek. It’s hard to move forward when we aren’t really okay. It’s hard to continue life moreover if it’s all planned and that planning includes the person who doesn’t want to continue the destination anymore. It hurts, isn’t it? When you’re the only one who wants to continue? When the other one chose to close the book? When the person you thought will accompany you through the whole story is just a part of a chapter? The chapter that’s already finish? I know… I know, I’ve been there it’s really painful. It’s hard to start your morning realizing the things changed with just a blink of an eye.

    But for me, we shouldn’t regret things that made us happy. The things that made us what we are right now. Pain is inevitable there’s no exception. We aren’t human it we don’t experience pain. I, myself will put myself in the article. Let’s say I’m the girl and my past lover doesn’t want us to be together anymore and what’s worse is that he regret the moments we’ve been through. So I’ll just let him go (even tho it hurts big time) I’ll let him live the way he wanted to. I won’t bother him, I’ll give him peace. Because, that’s love if we truly love someone he should let them go. We don’t need to force things just because we want to. It’s also unfair with the person to do things he don’t want. And I believe these things happens for a reason. It’s a sign that the best is yet to come. We should rush things.

    Move on, simple phrase that affects our live and hurts like thousands of needles the touches our skin. But that’s life, we won’t grow if we will stuck in that phase of life. Moving on takes time and while doing the process, we will be able to learn a lot of things. Like self-love, realizations, appreciation and open a lot opportunities. It maybe feels like the end of the world but it will all pass. One day, we will be thankful for all the pains, challenges and situations we’ve been though because that made us a better one.

    This article implies real-self, because it narrates one real situation in real life which anyone can experience. The article is just like our friend who experienced heartbreak and it’s like telling us how much he love the person and the things they shared together. The real-self isn’t afraid to tell things been through thus, it’s eager to tell things the he/she experienced. While the statement ” If we can just unplug the circuits to reset if we can just change the memory chips for new ones and forget what happened just like what he wants. ” shows the ideal-self which is impossible it’s the things she want and wishes to happen. Just like a perspective that is impossible to achieve.

    But at the end of the day, We are all worth it! We deserve to be happy, we deserve to be loved, and we deserve the happiness and the world.

  9. we are all worth it because all of
    us has different charactiristic
    wea are born with different races,languages,status in life.We are all worth it because we are born different and we deserve to be happy,we deserve to be love to be especial to do what we want,we are all worth it whatever you are what are your status in your life,what are your gender that is not important because we are the same people create by god

    Well to start it, the author of this article used an Effort and Result Analogy
    which is a type of “cause and effect” type. She depict her ownself a person who risked everthing
    and fought for someone even though the result of it didn’t turned out the way she wanted it to. Also, she mentioned it
    as “a process” of how going through specific things in life. Through this process she called, memories only is what matters.
    After this processes, or what I called it experiences in her life, she still considered all this struggles to be worth it.

    The article depicts the Real Self because she mentioned a lot of life experiences she faced.
    Also, to support my answer, she narrated obvious instances in her life that she experienced. She narrated
    for what I believed is her life with a particular person that she grew attached to. I assumed that it was her companion in life (boyfriend)
    that did not turned out well for her. Even though she mentioned some instances “he wants to forget”, “he doesn’t want to repeat again”,
    “change the memory chips for new ones and forget what happened just like what he wants”, those she mentioned are the Ideal Self that they wanted to happen.
    But stiil, through the entirety of her artcile it still depicts the Real Self. Because Real Self is who you actually are through experiences, while
    your Ideal Self is the person you want to be.

  10. The analogy that was used in this article is problem and solution analogy. The writer first identified a situational problem which is in the last three sentences of the first paragraph. Then, the writer also provided solutions which is accepting everything that happened and just letting him—her boyfriend, do his thing.

    Taking risk is difficult for most of us, especially when we’re not used to doing it. We sometimes get to a point that we tend to chain ourselves from our own norms than doing things we don’t usually do. In this article, the writer handed us the effects of taking risks, specifically, taking risks in love. This blog indicates how love can actually hurt and teach a person at the same time.

    In my own personal view, this article depicts a Real Self. The writer chose to show the different side of what’s happening. She did not let this broke-up destroy her happy life, instead, she managed to look and ponder on the brighter side of this unfortunate situation. The writer exposed her attributes that even if she was left hanging in their relationship, she did not talked about how the broke-up happened or how her boyfriend came to that choice. She just wanted to move on and regret nothing because for her, the lessons that she earned and the memories that she had made her not regret all that has happened. That’s just how she is and that’s her real self.

  11. This article used an Cause and Effect. It says that in the article she said that she risked everything and fought for someone/something but the result of her risking didn’t turned out positive. Even though the outcome didn’t turn out on what she expects, she still needs to continue her life. Life is worth it. Loving is not only for partners, you can achieve love from your family, friends and whoever believes, trust and care for you. We should not forget that we have god who loves and care for us ready to defend us on whatever situation it is. Risking is very hard, it is because of you don’t really know the outcome or the result.

  12. Mary Frances Gayeta
    Mary Frances Gayeta

    basically this is about sacrifices you wont expect for what will happen but still you choose taking a risks.

    If you want it, Go for it.
    Take a risk.
    Don’t always play it safe or you’ll die wondering.

  13. In my own perspective, I believe that this article tackles about the real self in the struggle of trusting and putting your self at risk to someone’s perception. The author reflects an analogy of cause and effect because she was talking about the struggles she had and how did the things went that way. She and her boyfriend may never had the chance to have a proper closure but she’s reminding her self that all of the sacrifices, risks, and problems they have encountered went through, life will always be worth it.

  14. The author makes the begin of her work more interesting is by the use of the Analogy, Cause and Effect. The author stated that she risked and fought for everything she have but ended up to an unexpected break up. All those are sweet became bitter. After all of the pleasant memories have gone through and then broke up. It began to turn rancid.
    “All the marshmallow-cupcake-sweet-to-the-max words that he said are the words he’s using now to stab you on the back”
    Regret is one of the most contagious emotion to possess as it forgets why you live in this world but accepting them would heal you from the blighted memories and you will learn from them and not repeat whats made.
    The blog itself depicts about the REAL SELF, as the author stated in the article that she possesses instability and made an experience of her life counted if it is wonderful or terrible.

  15. Mary Rose Abariento
    Mary Rose Abariento

    as i read the the article i realized one thing it is we are worth fighting for. The analogy used in this article i think is the cause and effect analogy basically if you sacrifice for someone you are taking the risk therefore you will not know what will happen, and the girl in this article give and sacrifice so whats the effect? she got hurt in the end right? but if you truly love a person you shouldn’t regret the things you’ve done but you take it as a lesson always remember that trying and sacrificing is making us strong.
    everything is worth fighting for especially if you are truly love that person even if taking the risk is difficult we are only a human and bleed when we fall down so all you have to do is work on what you love. Life is process and full of unexpected things so be ready.

  16. To my understanding, the author is in ideal self. We are living in our ideal self. We like to do it some thing but ended up to not doing it. The author is in the process of letting and self realization and the author doesn’t know if its worth it or not but the end, the author decides to accept the things even though it is hurt. Like us, we need to accept ourselves to move forward. Yes it hurts, we regret it but its worth it. Why? Because we learned from the past and we learned from our mistakes.

  17. Elimar Abelardo
    Elimar Abelardo

    It’s about the value of our self of what we have on living in this world we probably know that even if you are on the top or bottom we know that we are equally the same in the end because we are just human with the same intellect and values, thou we have different personalities and identity. All people living in this world know life is worth when they were born because they have experience how they manage to live up on their own path of living and we believe that life is totally worth it even if there is struggle we can overcome our fears threats or anything that is impossible. That is life that worth it.

  18. Nicko Jan Butanas
    Nicko Jan Butanas

    The analogy that was used by the author is Actions and Consequences. The author is weighing his/her decisions or actions in life, is it gonna helpful or not, would those things improve him/her or not, could those things change his/her life. The author is simpy saying that everything that we will do, we do, and we did has there own price, but in the end of the day, whether you actions are good or not for you, it’s now a part of who you are today, they’re one of the reasons why you are living that way, eventhough you erase that, it will never leave you alone, it will have its scars that will remind you that they once lived with you.

    The article is depicting te real self, because it measures everything he/she does for his/her own sake. The author is living in the real world, because she always thought of the actions he/she does, whether it will goona be a great thing for him:her or not. She is living practically and intelligently, or should I say wisely.

  19. For me, the author used the analogy of caused and effect to present the concept of the story. this shows that a person is willing to sacrifice everything and give things that he/she wants but in the end no one know’s if it is worth it. This shows that everything that you do in life, how hard is it, how long it would take, nothing proves that your work is worth it. This may occur in every thing or event that we do just not only in love life that there is no assurance if its worth it or not. Just like stated there we must accept it and especially we have to learn how to move on.

  20. For me, the analogy that was used to present present in the concept is Cause and Effect Analogy which it derives from the cause on one side and its indisputably connected effect on the other side. Just like on the article says “We are all worth it”. we are all worth it to endure the pain, the sadness, everything, we must accept the fact that it happened. it’s a part of our lives.

    Based on my understanding the article depicts a “Ideal Self” because the version of yourself made out of what you have learned from your life experiences and what you want to be. Like on the article, she wants to be strong in all of her experiences.

  21. The author used an analogy of Comparison: Cause & Effect. It is like giving your everything to someone, but in the end you will and always lose. Though you risked everything, you sacrificed, and give the world to that “someone”, sometimes it is not enough.

    Real-Self, since the author of the article are accepting how the things went to and just accepting that the person she is referring to, regretted everything that has happened to them.

  22. We are all worth it and have a different values of life, in a relationship it is worth fighting for, for the one’s we loved. We take everything we have sacrifice, trust, time and hard work for your relationship and even giving all you have to the person you loved, but in the end it doesn’t go as you plan. Sometimes life is unfair that everything you have sacrifice will be for nothing, and all the sacrifices that you risk will bring pain.

    For my own thoughts, this article have and deep meaning and a powerful message to the readers, because despites all you been through you will continue to grow, learn, forgive, and to move on. And every challenges we face we become more stronger ever before. Some will regret their sacrifices they made to the person they once loved, they will erase their good memory and live a bitterness, lose trust, and un-build self. But to does who surpass their struggles will continue to grow, learn, and to love again without hate.

    This article implies real self because despite all the challenges she face, she choose grow, learn, accept, forgive, and to move on to continue his life.

  23. If you really love that person you would do anything for him/her. Maybe it’s a hard time for the both of you but always remember to reflect on the time and the memories you have spent together. But if things are not really working out. You just need to let go of that person or else it will hurt you over again. Just remember that those things are happening coz’ there is a reason. Maybe the next few weeks you’ll meet another person that will make you happy. You don’t deserve to be treated like before and you must always remember that you are worth it and you deserve better.

  24. John Carlos Rael
    John Carlos Rael

    The Article is a Cause and effect type. It is his own experience in life, that in the first it is happy and full of enjoyment but we know that after that enjoyment is the opposite that is full of problems and sometimes that problem will be the cause that we will give up on everything we have. It cause to us trauma sometime and its hard to fight because when we want to move on the memories we had is always comes with our mind.

    This blog implies a Real Self, because this blog represent of her own experience. She just want to express her feelings of her past that always comes in her mind, she just want to find her worth or just regretting all the things that they do, she just became real to herself.

  25. Esteven Esteves
    Esteven Esteves

    Based on the article that I read the author tells a relationship between a man and a woman, but the man left the woman. The author asked if it is worth it? for me it was all worth it because all the memory that we made makes me happy and I prefer it and I do not regret it. instead thank him for the effort that he gave to you and do not be discouraged because he left you, because you already happy before he comes to your life he just added you some enjoyment in you life.

  26. The author pertains to a relationship that ends the way they don’t want to be. Everything is worth risking for, You’ll probably regret that you knew that person but don’t you think that you learned a lesson from that person? Things will never go the way we want it to be but I know God has a plan for everyone and I know that this is the best because he knew what’s best for us. Always take a risk and if it fails, you’ll get a lesson that helps you to be strong. Everything is worth risking for.

  27. Why all of us are worth it? Everyone is worth it if it is you think yourself is not worth it because everyone hurting you and you feel useless in this world. God create us and everyone have their own mission in this world, if anyone treat you’re not worth, don’t believe to them, believe in yourself even if what type of person you are, your face skin tone or what, doesn’t mean you’re not worth it and you think you’re ugly or what you’re still worth it maybe they didn’t appreciate you because all their need and want are those who have good in physical appearance they didn’t know that some of those have good physical appearance are good in inside/attitude “Don’t judge the by its cover” even if you think that you are not everyone’s like you’re still worth it and don’t please everyone to love you and to like you, why? Because if they like you and love you they will stay even if you push them away like your friends even if they treat that you’re not one of them you’re still worth it.

  28. The Analogy used in article is cause and effect. Real self, because it happens in real life and some of us has been in that situation. But if i am in the situation i dont need to have that “Regret” because for once in my life it makes me happy and it gave me a lesson.

  29. Not all the people that we want to stay, will stay. Because as the article said not all the things will turn out the way we want it to be end. There’s no such thing in this world that are perfect. For me, the analogy of this article is “cause and effect”. They have memories that they have shared together, she fought for her love, she take risked even if it will not last or she doesn’t have an assurance. But the person she loves, doesn’t want to be with her anymore. The memories will remain memories. The person might regretting on what they have been through or the memories that they made.
    The article is “real self” because it is someone experienced. And I know that we all have been through in this kind of situation. Like you fought for you love, you sacrificed, you gave everything what you can give. Because I believe that when you’re in love so bad, the impossible became possible. To the point, even if the person no longer happy with you or don’t want to be with you, you still want them to stay in your life and be a martyr one. But remember that people come and go.

  30. It tells us that no matter how happy we are, no matter how in-love we are there will always be a hard time that you will think of giving up. It hurts so much that the person you love yesterday is now the person who hates you just because something bad happened. “There is no perfect, there will always be a struggle, you just have to pick who you want to struggle with” even though when you met the right person for you there will be a time that you will face many problems and realized that he/she is not the one. Don’t regret someone as if you didn’t experience happiness with him/her.

    Everything is worth the fight. “You never really love someone until you learn to forgive”, if that person regrets you don’t be like him/her. Instead be happy that he/she came to your life and experience happiness and love for short/long period of time. Why it is worth it? Because you learn to forgive, and accept that hard times could be the turning point for us to move forward again.

  31. In my own understanding or thoughts, the Author wants to tell us what she experiences in her past relationship. She is accepting the fact that nothing really lasts forever. No matter how much efforts you show, and no matter how many risks you’ve taken.

  32. Everything is unpredictable because life changes. You can never be certain about anything, everyone and everything will hurt you in the end but once you chose it, it is worth it.

    The author used “marshmallows-cupcakes-sweet-to-the-max words” to say that his words are sweet and “heartbeats and roller coaster you shared” to say thatboth of you had an adventure.

    “unplug the circuits” “change the memory chips” to say that if only it was easy to chage the mempries or cut it so that it won’t be as painful and hard as it is.

    The article shows “real self” for it is facing reality. It states the happenings and life experiences that the author have come across and that is, i think, the implication of real self.

  33. For me, this particular article represents Effort and Result Analogy. This analogy means that there should be a certain action (effort) that will cause the result. She have made various efforts such as fighting for the person she loves which came up with a certain result. Unfortunately, even if how much love she invest with him, she still lost because all he felt was regret. Another depiction of the effort and result analogy is when she accepted the circumstances which lead her to thinking that she didn’t regret anything because it was all worth it.

  34. Based on what I had read, the author used the “Effort and Result Analogy” since it says that an actual effort has to be made which leads to a certain result. To support that, she had done things for the love of her life (before) like what she said that she fought and she took the risk but at the end of the day she became broken, that her heart was stabbed by millions of knives. And that not all that what we planned will turn out the way we wanted it to be which the result became. She also mentioned that it is the process; it is how we go through such things in life (memories and experiences) but even after all these struggles it will always be worthy.
    This is all about “real self” since she mentioned what she’d been through in her life. It is all about the reality, which really happens in real life situations. Like what she said “ It hurts doesn’t it” This came from her because she felt the pain. She felt what was true in this world. And that is the sweetest pain an individual could ever have.

  35. Not all the people that we want to stay, will stay. Because as the article said not all the things will turn out the way we want it to end. If you want it, Go for it. Take a risk. Don’t always play it safe or you’ll die wondering.

  36. Joy Ann Christine Mateo
    Joy Ann Christine Mateo

    The analogy used by the author/s in the article is Cause and effect. Everything that has happened in the past has and will always teach us a lesson may it be good or bad, or may it be something in favor to us or maybe not. All our actions would always lead to something in the end. It may be something that we would cherish or something that will always give us the “feels” but never something we would forget. I believe that one should never regret anything in the past for it is also one of the reasons of our happinesses and success today. Yes, it contributed a lot to where we are today and to what we are as a person. It has made us stronger. Regret is a very dangerous word, regret is nothing but one of the worst things one can do. Nothing is regretful if it will be the reason of how you found happiness and peace. The past will always be worth it. Nothing of it is even on the negative. We just think of it that way because it may have not been in our favor or it has hurt us. However, these things happened for a reason and the reason is there is something or someone coming that is much better for us. The real self is very evident in the article. This is how a normal being would act after a break up. However, i think that the article did not only focus on sexual relationships. It is mainly about regrets of the past and trying to “okay” to finally have peace inside. The real self would always want to be “okay” by just accepting the fact that it is done and that it has been worth the risk he/she took. Lastly, the real self would always take the risk and make the risk worth it.

  37. We are all worth the love in the world. The author depicts the situation of a person who was used to be loved by another person. However, that once great relationship sadly ended and the author asked if the relationship is still worth fighting for despite the hurt that it brought to that person. The author shows that past happy times they used to have to the present time that they are now experiencing.
    Based on my understanding with the article, it shows a real self rather than the ideal one for it is experiencing a great hurt and he doesn’t know what to do to escape it. Those kind of instances wherein you wish you could just restart life and escape the hurt, sadly it its the real self. The self that experience the pain that the world gives. Hence, life is worth risking after all. And whether they appreciate you or not, your worth should never depend on them.

  38. I think it shows the true self of the character, the words on the article shows how past experience or heartaches can affect one’s life. Tue self is the core of who we are, the original us and who we are caused by the society we have. It is indeed that we should let go and let God rule our life.

    I think the article depicts real self because it is from the perspective of the author wherein he/she stated what may happened if we still hold on to the things that aren’t for us. I think it is from the author who learns how to let go of the things from his/her past experiences.

  39. Maria Kiela Vince E. Nocito
    Maria Kiela Vince E. Nocito

    The analogy used was “cause and effect “. In the article, she depict herself where she risked everything but it didn’t turned out the way she wanted to. She gave him everything and fought for him but nothing changed and He still left her.
    The article depicts Real Self because we all know that this can happen in our real life so based on the article I think it is based on her real life experience where she expressed what she have experienced in the past. She expressed that she wanted to find her worth but she realized that all good things are worth fighting for.

  40. the analogy used of presenting the concept of self is even though a girl commits many mistakes in life and trials in life there is always a way to prove her self and she is all worth it. everything that comes to her way and her journey is all worth risking and worth dying for. so we can prove our self worthy and appreciate it as a compliment in life.

  41. this depicts real self, because it says that we are all worth it, its not a metaphor, in real life, we have challenges and trials we are facing and we are able to conquer and learn from it and apply it in life and for not putting your head down and moving every step of the way.

  42. ACT186
    The analogy used was “Cause and Effect”.
    In this article, it shows us the ‘Real Self’. Because based on the article, the author risk everything for the man he loved (I think) but in the end, it turns our nothing. All of the things that she risk became useless. It is a real self because she express what she really feels because she fight for the things that she thought that are worth fighting for and even though she’s hurt, she keep on fighting for what she wants even though it turns out nothing.

  43. ACT186

    Article was all telling us that things happen in ourselves was not always the same on what we expect and dream for our lives. Their are people who will leave you, but the memories that you had will stay forever and the important thing is that, the memories. What I understand is, its all about acceptance. There are good memories to be treasure and there are memories that is meant to forget. If you think that memory will cause you pain, better to forget that memory and create a new a happy one.

    But, do not forget that there are things that are worth it. Even if it is contrary with what you expect, you still need time to think if it was worth it, and for me, all the pain is worth it because there is something good that will happen.

    This article depicts Real self. Going back to the definition of real self, The real self is a source of values that are in the best interest of human development, regardless of culture. Thinking that it is worth it will help you develop. It is the reality. It is also said that, “the reaction of our true self to the proper functioning or the malfunctioning of our total personality” defines a true self that is similar in this article. Accepting things and TELLING YOURSELF THAT YOU ARE WORTH IT IS NOT AN IMPOSSIBLE SELF. IT HAPPEN IN REALITY, and for me, we should all have that kind of thinking.

  44. I think this is a type of cause and effect, risk for something and fight for whta you want

  45. The analogy of this article is the challenges we face through in our lives. I think we have the same situation since the guy I met regret all the things we shared but I treasure every moments we were together. It’s our choice to be strong or to be weak

  46. This shows the real-self since it reflects the real situations every one can relate

  47. The analogy used was the Cause and Effect. The woman gave everything, she even took a risk and fight for his love but it turned out differently where she was inflicted with pain because not all things go out the way we used to be.
    The author depicts real self because she expressed her true feelings of giving all her love even though it ended nothing, she still holds the fact that it was all worth-fighting and worth-risking for.

  48. For me it is real self because it is based on her true experience.

  49. The author used the Effort and Result analogy. She gave efforts and all of her love to a person thinking that it will be good but as a result, she was left behind. Based on what she have written, she described her story based on her true experiences. In this article, she expressed her real self. She described herself as a person who can give everything and can fight for someone even though the result is not what she expects. She describe on her story all the things she encountered in life. She also told us her treasured memories.

  50. The analogy used by the author was Cause and Effect. She risked everything that she have, it even caused her so much pain but in the end, it was not as she wanted it to be. The author expressed her real self, because as you read the article, she clearly expressed what she feels about it. She said that even if it did not got the way we wanted it to be, we have to accept the reality and let everything go. Even if she was stabbed by the sweet memories and the pain at the same time, she is still prpud that she took the risk and fought for it.

  51. VERGARA, LEILANIE ACT 186
    The analogy that was used in the article is the Cause and Effect analogy.”Everything is worth-risking and worth fighting for, right? Even things don’t turn out the way we want it to be in the end.”As can be seen, she started the article by describing how she took risk in giving her all and said that things did not happen according to her plan or how she expected it to be. In life, we always want the chase, the chase that tempts us to love and to be loved. But the things wont really happen in accordance to our will especially when we are in a relationship with our loved ones. Even if we dont give up, they will still find ways on how to end the relationship and not minding our own feelings. That is life and that is worth-risking. It is still worth it even though we did not receive any of the love we gave simply because we wanted it. We want to be loved and we want to be worth it. But whatever happens in the end, we are all still worth it. And worth fighting for even we are in an extreme lost.

    The article pertains to both real self and ideal self. Real self because the author showed how she was hurt based on her words. She is still human and she can not deny the fact that she was hurt and it was difficult for her to just move on and forget everything in a snap. Just like us humans, it is really hard for us to accept every end of the relationship because we expected something. We expected it to last but we arent aware that everything is just temporary. The article also depicts the ideal self wherein she said that if she could erase and restart her memory then it would be easy for her to forget the man she loved. She just imagined things would be like that, that she would forget as easy as the robot do. Well in fact, it wont work. It will never work because she have to be in process of doing it.

  52. The author wants to impart to the readers the concept of real self. In the given article above, the author used the past memories or experiences of people to realize their self now. It tells us that the happenings before has something to tell us to improve our self in present situation. All things are worth fighting for if we choose to, if we are in no doubt that the things that we decided to fight for are worth it. We need to realize the concept of acceptance and use the learning form the past to improve our real self.

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