WE ARE ALL WORTH IT

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Everything is worth-risking and worth fighting for, right? Even things don’t turn out the way we want it to be in the end. It is the process, it is how we go through the things. It is the memories of the journey that makes it worthy. But what if that person you risked and fought for regret everything that happened between you two? Do you still think it was worth it? Or do you want to start regretting it too?

It hurts, doesn’t it? The memories that you treasure, remember and play again and again in your head are the memories he wants to forget. All the marshmallow-cupcake-sweet-to-the-max words that he said are the words he’s using now to stab you on the back. All the heartbeats and roller coasters you shared are the experiences he doesn’t want to repeat again. So, do you still think it was worth it? Or do you want to start regretting all of it too?

If we can just unplug the circuits to reset if we can just change the memory chips for new ones and forget what happened just like what he wants. But we can’t, we just have to accept it, that things will never go the way it used to be.

We will just let him,

but it was still all worth-risking and worth fighting for.

worth-it

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Christian Randy Maranan
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Well to start it, the author of this article used an Effort and Result Analogy which is a type of “cause and effect” type. She depict her ownself a person who risked everthing and fought for someone even though the result of it didn’t turned out the way she wanted it to. Also, she mentioned it as “a process” of how going through specific things in life. Through this process she called, memories only is what matters. After this processes, or what I called it experiences in her life, she still considered all this struggles to be worth it. The… Read more »

Dboy Baguisi
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Base on my understanding the author wants to tell us that even though all this best things happens to us that lead to a thing that is to be regretful are still a worth one, I agree to this even this best things change and it will became a regretful one don’t forget that we still have a good memories to it so why we need to regret the best things that change if the good memories is i still there? so for me its also still a worth one because we are all worth it.

Fhillip Bagsic
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The analogy that is used to present the concept of the article is Cause and Effect Analogy. The Cause is stated as a person who risked and fought for everything for his lover and the Effect is stated as the other lover regretting everything they’ve had. Because loving always comes in pair with getting hurt. Based on my own thoughts, the article depicts Real Self. The author described an imminent thing that could happen about someone she really love. She described the instances of what she would feel when someone she fought for somehow regretted what happened between them and… Read more »

Jesnhile Sarmiento
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In every relationship, the basic foundation of everything starts with trust. To be with someone you really want is a gamble that you always bet, even your last piece of penny. In short it is always worth it, no matter the chances that you will lose or you will fail- you will always take the leap of faith. The thing is, the outcome isn’t really what matters, it is the moments that really matter. And that is what makes everything worthy. As a matter of fact, the author narrates her experiences with his ex-boyfriend that she couldn’t forget. Even though… Read more »

CeeGee Bee
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Basically, the author pertains about a relationship ended. Based from the article, it is about the feeling of a break up. Everything in our life is worth it. Yourself, your ex, your family or the people around you are worth it and worth fighthing for. As it is about the feeling after a heart break, it reflected the worth of the risk in taking relationships. The worth is always not about what you have won sometimes it is more in what you have learned. If you fail the thing that you kept fithing or risking, it is more worth it… Read more »

Mary Joy Antivo
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The type analogy used in the article by the author is cause and effect. Though the woman gave everything to this man, she took the risks, sacrificed time and efforts, even her own soul, still the effect is that it didn’t turned out the way she expected. The man still leave her. In life, sometimes, even though we gave the best as we can, still it isn’t enough. Life is really ironic. People are also ironic too. I think the woman in the article as I believe is a fighter somehow, that she have got all the strength she need… Read more »

Abigail Capio
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Having relationship with someone is already a risk. Choosing to be with someone you love make you think that everything is worth fighting for. You don’t care how many sacrifices you did for that kind of relationship, for you every moment with that special person matters. The author narrates here what she experiences in her past relationship. She created decision that she thinks that she will never regret. Memories that she always remembers no matter what. Even it hurts she thinks that all she did was worth it even thou she lost her lover. She is accepting the fact that… Read more »

Maye Herrera
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Life doesn’t always go according to plan. We aren’t the one who can dictate what will happen on our life. Just like in this article, the beginning is good but they don’t end up with each other. This article is a short but it leaves us thoughts the we can’t forget. The answers we seek. It’s hard to move forward when we aren’t really okay. It’s hard to continue life moreover if it’s all planned and that planning includes the person who doesn’t want to continue the destination anymore. It hurts, isn’t it? When you’re the only one who wants… Read more »

Ailo Alvarado
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we are all worth it because all of us has different charactiristic wea are born with different races,languages,status in life.We are all worth it because we are born different and we deserve to be happy,we deserve to be love to be especial to do what we want,we are all worth it whatever you are what are your status in your life,what are your gender that is not important because we are the same people create by god Well to start it, the author of this article used an Effort and Result Analogy which is a type of “cause and effect”… Read more »

Justin Macki Julhusin
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The analogy that was used in this article is problem and solution analogy. The writer first identified a situational problem which is in the last three sentences of the first paragraph. Then, the writer also provided solutions which is accepting everything that happened and just letting him—her boyfriend, do his thing. Taking risk is difficult for most of us, especially when we’re not used to doing it. We sometimes get to a point that we tend to chain ourselves from our own norms than doing things we don’t usually do. In this article, the writer handed us the effects of… Read more »

Christian Harvey Gonzales
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This article used an Cause and Effect. It says that in the article she said that she risked everything and fought for someone/something but the result of her risking didn’t turned out positive. Even though the outcome didn’t turn out on what she expects, she still needs to continue her life. Life is worth it. Loving is not only for partners, you can achieve love from your family, friends and whoever believes, trust and care for you. We should not forget that we have god who loves and care for us ready to defend us on whatever situation it is.… Read more »

Mary Frances Gayeta
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basically this is about sacrifices you wont expect for what will happen but still you choose taking a risks.

If you want it, Go for it.
Take a risk.
Don’t always play it safe or you’ll die wondering.

Cj Dizon
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In my own perspective, I believe that this article tackles about the real self in the struggle of trusting and putting your self at risk to someone’s perception. The author reflects an analogy of cause and effect because she was talking about the struggles she had and how did the things went that way. She and her boyfriend may never had the chance to have a proper closure but she’s reminding her self that all of the sacrifices, risks, and problems they have encountered went through, life will always be worth it.

Gerdan Narvasa
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The author makes the begin of her work more interesting is by the use of the Analogy, Cause and Effect. The author stated that she risked and fought for everything she have but ended up to an unexpected break up. All those are sweet became bitter. After all of the pleasant memories have gone through and then broke up. It began to turn rancid. “All the marshmallow-cupcake-sweet-to-the-max words that he said are the words he’s using now to stab you on the back” Regret is one of the most contagious emotion to possess as it forgets why you live in… Read more »

Mary Rose Abariento
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as i read the the article i realized one thing it is we are worth fighting for. The analogy used in this article i think is the cause and effect analogy basically if you sacrifice for someone you are taking the risk therefore you will not know what will happen, and the girl in this article give and sacrifice so whats the effect? she got hurt in the end right? but if you truly love a person you shouldn’t regret the things you’ve done but you take it as a lesson always remember that trying and sacrificing is making us… Read more »

Reiven L
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To my understanding, the author is in ideal self. We are living in our ideal self. We like to do it some thing but ended up to not doing it. The author is in the process of letting and self realization and the author doesn’t know if its worth it or not but the end, the author decides to accept the things even though it is hurt. Like us, we need to accept ourselves to move forward. Yes it hurts, we regret it but its worth it. Why? Because we learned from the past and we learned from our mistakes.

Elimar Abelardo
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It’s about the value of our self of what we have on living in this world we probably know that even if you are on the top or bottom we know that we are equally the same in the end because we are just human with the same intellect and values, thou we have different personalities and identity. All people living in this world know life is worth when they were born because they have experience how they manage to live up on their own path of living and we believe that life is totally worth it even if there… Read more »

Nicko Jan Butanas
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The analogy that was used by the author is Actions and Consequences. The author is weighing his/her decisions or actions in life, is it gonna helpful or not, would those things improve him/her or not, could those things change his/her life. The author is simpy saying that everything that we will do, we do, and we did has there own price, but in the end of the day, whether you actions are good or not for you, it’s now a part of who you are today, they’re one of the reasons why you are living that way, eventhough you erase… Read more »

Sherwin Menor
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For me, the author used the analogy of caused and effect to present the concept of the story. this shows that a person is willing to sacrifice everything and give things that he/she wants but in the end no one know’s if it is worth it. This shows that everything that you do in life, how hard is it, how long it would take, nothing proves that your work is worth it. This may occur in every thing or event that we do just not only in love life that there is no assurance if its worth it or not.… Read more »

Kathleen Chan
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For me, the analogy that was used to present present in the concept is Cause and Effect Analogy which it derives from the cause on one side and its indisputably connected effect on the other side. Just like on the article says “We are all worth it”. we are all worth it to endure the pain, the sadness, everything, we must accept the fact that it happened. it’s a part of our lives. Based on my understanding the article depicts a “Ideal Self” because the version of yourself made out of what you have learned from your life experiences and… Read more »

Daniella Lejarde
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The author used an analogy of Comparison: Cause & Effect. It is like giving your everything to someone, but in the end you will and always lose. Though you risked everything, you sacrificed, and give the world to that “someone”, sometimes it is not enough.

Real-Self, since the author of the article are accepting how the things went to and just accepting that the person she is referring to, regretted everything that has happened to them.

Randell Sia
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We are all worth it and have a different values of life, in a relationship it is worth fighting for, for the one’s we loved. We take everything we have sacrifice, trust, time and hard work for your relationship and even giving all you have to the person you loved, but in the end it doesn’t go as you plan. Sometimes life is unfair that everything you have sacrifice will be for nothing, and all the sacrifices that you risk will bring pain. For my own thoughts, this article have and deep meaning and a powerful message to the readers,… Read more »

Louissa Deldoc
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If you really love that person you would do anything for him/her. Maybe it’s a hard time for the both of you but always remember to reflect on the time and the memories you have spent together. But if things are not really working out. You just need to let go of that person or else it will hurt you over again. Just remember that those things are happening coz’ there is a reason. Maybe the next few weeks you’ll meet another person that will make you happy. You don’t deserve to be treated like before and you must always… Read more »

John Carlos Rael
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The Article is a Cause and effect type. It is his own experience in life, that in the first it is happy and full of enjoyment but we know that after that enjoyment is the opposite that is full of problems and sometimes that problem will be the cause that we will give up on everything we have. It cause to us trauma sometime and its hard to fight because when we want to move on the memories we had is always comes with our mind. This blog implies a Real Self, because this blog represent of her own experience.… Read more »

Esteven Esteves
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Based on the article that I read the author tells a relationship between a man and a woman, but the man left the woman. The author asked if it is worth it? for me it was all worth it because all the memory that we made makes me happy and I prefer it and I do not regret it. instead thank him for the effort that he gave to you and do not be discouraged because he left you, because you already happy before he comes to your life he just added you some enjoyment in you life.

Mella Montejo
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The author pertains to a relationship that ends the way they don’t want to be. Everything is worth risking for, You’ll probably regret that you knew that person but don’t you think that you learned a lesson from that person? Things will never go the way we want it to be but I know God has a plan for everyone and I know that this is the best because he knew what’s best for us. Always take a risk and if it fails, you’ll get a lesson that helps you to be strong. Everything is worth risking for.

Juveil Batalla
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Why all of us are worth it? Everyone is worth it if it is you think yourself is not worth it because everyone hurting you and you feel useless in this world. God create us and everyone have their own mission in this world, if anyone treat you’re not worth, don’t believe to them, believe in yourself even if what type of person you are, your face skin tone or what, doesn’t mean you’re not worth it and you think you’re ugly or what you’re still worth it maybe they didn’t appreciate you because all their need and want are… Read more »

Christian Apan
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The Analogy used in article is cause and effect. Real self, because it happens in real life and some of us has been in that situation. But if i am in the situation i dont need to have that “Regret” because for once in my life it makes me happy and it gave me a lesson.

Carla Poblete
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Not all the people that we want to stay, will stay. Because as the article said not all the things will turn out the way we want it to be end. There’s no such thing in this world that are perfect. For me, the analogy of this article is “cause and effect”. They have memories that they have shared together, she fought for her love, she take risked even if it will not last or she doesn’t have an assurance. But the person she loves, doesn’t want to be with her anymore. The memories will remain memories. The person might… Read more »

Paul Cabanlit
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It tells us that no matter how happy we are, no matter how in-love we are there will always be a hard time that you will think of giving up. It hurts so much that the person you love yesterday is now the person who hates you just because something bad happened. “There is no perfect, there will always be a struggle, you just have to pick who you want to struggle with” even though when you met the right person for you there will be a time that you will face many problems and realized that he/she is not… Read more »

Gayle Estacio
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In my own understanding or thoughts, the Author wants to tell us what she experiences in her past relationship. She is accepting the fact that nothing really lasts forever. No matter how much efforts you show, and no matter how many risks you’ve taken.

Elizabeth Krysia Ann Villanueva
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Everything is unpredictable because life changes. You can never be certain about anything, everyone and everything will hurt you in the end but once you chose it, it is worth it. The author used “marshmallows-cupcakes-sweet-to-the-max words” to say that his words are sweet and “heartbeats and roller coaster you shared” to say thatboth of you had an adventure. “unplug the circuits” “change the memory chips” to say that if only it was easy to chage the mempries or cut it so that it won’t be as painful and hard as it is. The article shows “real self” for it is… Read more »

Katrina Maes
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For me, this particular article represents Effort and Result Analogy. This analogy means that there should be a certain action (effort) that will cause the result. She have made various efforts such as fighting for the person she loves which came up with a certain result. Unfortunately, even if how much love she invest with him, she still lost because all he felt was regret. Another depiction of the effort and result analogy is when she accepted the circumstances which lead her to thinking that she didn’t regret anything because it was all worth it.

Jeric Tingson
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Based on what I had read, the author used the “Effort and Result Analogy” since it says that an actual effort has to be made which leads to a certain result. To support that, she had done things for the love of her life (before) like what she said that she fought and she took the risk but at the end of the day she became broken, that her heart was stabbed by millions of knives. And that not all that what we planned will turn out the way we wanted it to be which the result became. She also… Read more »

Adrian Albos
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Not all the people that we want to stay, will stay. Because as the article said not all the things will turn out the way we want it to end. If you want it, Go for it. Take a risk. Don’t always play it safe or you’ll die wondering.

Joy Ann Christine Mateo
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Joy Ann Christine Mateo

The analogy used by the author/s in the article is Cause and effect. Everything that has happened in the past has and will always teach us a lesson may it be good or bad, or may it be something in favor to us or maybe not. All our actions would always lead to something in the end. It may be something that we would cherish or something that will always give us the “feels” but never something we would forget. I believe that one should never regret anything in the past for it is also one of the reasons of… Read more »

Ryo Vasquez
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Ryo Vasquez

We are all worth the love in the world. The author depicts the situation of a person who was used to be loved by another person. However, that once great relationship sadly ended and the author asked if the relationship is still worth fighting for despite the hurt that it brought to that person. The author shows that past happy times they used to have to the present time that they are now experiencing. Based on my understanding with the article, it shows a real self rather than the ideal one for it is experiencing a great hurt and he… Read more »

Lexzadel Rayo
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I think it shows the true self of the character, the words on the article shows how past experience or heartaches can affect one’s life. Tue self is the core of who we are, the original us and who we are caused by the society we have. It is indeed that we should let go and let God rule our life. I think the article depicts real self because it is from the perspective of the author wherein he/she stated what may happened if we still hold on to the things that aren’t for us. I think it is from… Read more »

Maria Kiela Vince E. Nocito
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Maria Kiela Vince E. Nocito

The analogy used was “cause and effect “. In the article, she depict herself where she risked everything but it didn’t turned out the way she wanted to. She gave him everything and fought for him but nothing changed and He still left her. The article depicts Real Self because we all know that this can happen in our real life so based on the article I think it is based on her real life experience where she expressed what she have experienced in the past. She expressed that she wanted to find her worth but she realized that all… Read more »

Geofrey Lozano
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the analogy used of presenting the concept of self is even though a girl commits many mistakes in life and trials in life there is always a way to prove her self and she is all worth it. everything that comes to her way and her journey is all worth risking and worth dying for. so we can prove our self worthy and appreciate it as a compliment in life.

Geofrey Lozano
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this depicts real self, because it says that we are all worth it, its not a metaphor, in real life, we have challenges and trials we are facing and we are able to conquer and learn from it and apply it in life and for not putting your head down and moving every step of the way.

Yrica Camelon
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ACT186
The analogy used was “Cause and Effect”.
In this article, it shows us the ‘Real Self’. Because based on the article, the author risk everything for the man he loved (I think) but in the end, it turns our nothing. All of the things that she risk became useless. It is a real self because she express what she really feels because she fight for the things that she thought that are worth fighting for and even though she’s hurt, she keep on fighting for what she wants even though it turns out nothing.

Eloisa Mae Fundar
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ACT186 Article was all telling us that things happen in ourselves was not always the same on what we expect and dream for our lives. Their are people who will leave you, but the memories that you had will stay forever and the important thing is that, the memories. What I understand is, its all about acceptance. There are good memories to be treasure and there are memories that is meant to forget. If you think that memory will cause you pain, better to forget that memory and create a new a happy one. But, do not forget that there… Read more »

Vanessa Bernal
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I think this is a type of cause and effect, risk for something and fight for whta you want

Abigail Jallores
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The analogy of this article is the challenges we face through in our lives. I think we have the same situation since the guy I met regret all the things we shared but I treasure every moments we were together. It’s our choice to be strong or to be weak

Abigail Jallores
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This shows the real-self since it reflects the real situations every one can relate

Shareyld de Guia
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The analogy used was the Cause and Effect. The woman gave everything, she even took a risk and fight for his love but it turned out differently where she was inflicted with pain because not all things go out the way we used to be.
The author depicts real self because she expressed her true feelings of giving all her love even though it ended nothing, she still holds the fact that it was all worth-fighting and worth-risking for.

Briza Obeda
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For me it is real self because it is based on her true experience.

Jamaica Bonifacio
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The author used the Effort and Result analogy. She gave efforts and all of her love to a person thinking that it will be good but as a result, she was left behind. Based on what she have written, she described her story based on her true experiences. In this article, she expressed her real self. She described herself as a person who can give everything and can fight for someone even though the result is not what she expects. She describe on her story all the things she encountered in life. She also told us her treasured memories.

Karlyn Betita
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The analogy used by the author was Cause and Effect. She risked everything that she have, it even caused her so much pain but in the end, it was not as she wanted it to be. The author expressed her real self, because as you read the article, she clearly expressed what she feels about it. She said that even if it did not got the way we wanted it to be, we have to accept the reality and let everything go. Even if she was stabbed by the sweet memories and the pain at the same time, she is… Read more »